It’s near the end of the holiday event.  Uncle Freddie and Aunt Miranda (our “D”s) are getting ready to leave.  Cousins Jim and Oprah (our “I”s) are continuing to talk away, like always.  Brother Martin and sister Barbara (our “S”s) are still sitting at the dinner table finishing their dessert and listening to stories from a few other relatives who are also still sitting at the table.  Mother Diane and father Sheldon (our “C”s) are surveying the buffet, again, to take inventory of which of the desserts are still left.  They glance over to see what Uncle Freddie is doing.  He is finishing eating his third dessert.  I am just sitting there wondering if we will all escape this holiday event with the biggest ruckus being Dad’s and Uncle Freddie’s almost altercation over dessert at the buffet table.